The Dos And Many Don’ts Of Gift Giving In China
A British expat asks us:
Are there any rules about giving gifts in China? What types of gifts should I give to locals?
Which ones should I avoid?
A: China has a long tradition of giving gifts. We give presents on many occasions such as
festivals, business meetings, weddings, promotions and birthdays. Moreover, we always
give gifts when we visit someone’s home. In that case, fruit, dim sum and teas are the
most common things to give. The value of the presents should be decided case by case.
We recommend you consider the background and the personal interest before choosing a
gift for someone. Here is a list of items that you should avoid when giving gifts, according to
Chinese customs:
Clocks
In Chinese, clock sounds the same as zhong, which literally means “the end” and elderly
people will associate it with “death.”
Pears
Just like we said earlier, fruit is the most common gift to take when visiting friends or relatives.
But some fruits should be avoided, especially pears, which sounds the same as li, meaning
literally “separation.” You can’t give pears to couples and lovers.
Umbrellas
Umbrellas are unlucky gifts as the Chinese word sounds like san, which also literally
means “separation.”
Shoes
Shoes should not be presented to your boyfriend or girlfriend because, hypothetically speaking,
he or she can run away from you after wearing them, which suggests the end of a relationship.
Sharp objects
Sharp objects can easily hurt people. On the other hand, as the saying goes yi dao liang duan,
or make a clean break, if you give a knife to someone, they may link it with cutting off the relationship.
Hats
Never gift green hats to anyone. In China, “wearing a green hat” is an expression
that is used when a woman cheats on her husband or boyfriend. The Chinese phrase
sounds similar to the word for cuckold.
Chrysanthemum
Chrysanthemums are often used to commemorate the dead. So it is definitely a bad
gift choice when visiting friends or attending any celebration.
Certain numbers
Four sounds like si in Chinese, meaning “death,” so we should avoid this number
or any other number that contains four. And 13 has become increasingly unacceptable
to Chinese people in recent years.
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Are there any rules about giving gifts in China? What types of gifts should I give to locals?
Which ones should I avoid?
A: China has a long tradition of giving gifts. We give presents on many occasions such as
festivals, business meetings, weddings, promotions and birthdays. Moreover, we always
give gifts when we visit someone’s home. In that case, fruit, dim sum and teas are the
most common things to give. The value of the presents should be decided case by case.
We recommend you consider the background and the personal interest before choosing a
gift for someone. Here is a list of items that you should avoid when giving gifts, according to
Chinese customs:
Clocks
In Chinese, clock sounds the same as zhong, which literally means “the end” and elderly
people will associate it with “death.”
Pears
Just like we said earlier, fruit is the most common gift to take when visiting friends or relatives.
But some fruits should be avoided, especially pears, which sounds the same as li, meaning
literally “separation.” You can’t give pears to couples and lovers.
Umbrellas
Umbrellas are unlucky gifts as the Chinese word sounds like san, which also literally
means “separation.”
Shoes
Shoes should not be presented to your boyfriend or girlfriend because, hypothetically speaking,
he or she can run away from you after wearing them, which suggests the end of a relationship.
Sharp objects
Sharp objects can easily hurt people. On the other hand, as the saying goes yi dao liang duan,
or make a clean break, if you give a knife to someone, they may link it with cutting off the relationship.
Hats
Never gift green hats to anyone. In China, “wearing a green hat” is an expression
that is used when a woman cheats on her husband or boyfriend. The Chinese phrase
sounds similar to the word for cuckold.
Chrysanthemum
Chrysanthemums are often used to commemorate the dead. So it is definitely a bad
gift choice when visiting friends or attending any celebration.
Certain numbers
Four sounds like si in Chinese, meaning “death,” so we should avoid this number
or any other number that contains four. And 13 has become increasingly unacceptable
to Chinese people in recent years.
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